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Steve Kellar's avatar

Very much an overreaction. But also very poor judgement on Fr. Martin’s part. You can no longer touch a child; especially if you’re a R.C. priest. The tragic result of a terrible history that is all too recent.

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Dukeboy01's avatar

Sigh. So much stupid between all parties involved, assuming that what is now being reported through Father Martin's shysters is accurate.

The father's overreaction is completely ridiculous and, having been in their shoes on many occasions, I have the most sympathy for the police officers having to deal with this idiocy.

That said, you don't f*cking touch other people's kids in 2024 unless it's some kind of an emergency. You just don't do it.

Not only that, you don't single out an individual kid, especially girls, for multiple rounds of interaction as seems to have been the case here. It is unclear how old the girl in question is, but the older she was, the more awkward and embarrassing she probably felt.

I'll go ahead and go there: the celibacy requirement is part of the problem here. A normal man with a wife and daughters of his own would "get" how the prolonged interaction with a strange female child could cause her discomfort. That's not to say that normal men aren't capable of making women uncomfortable, but as a husband and, particularly, a father, your understanding of how situations can upset the women in your care is exponentially greater than that of someone whose opportunity to learn those lessons is foreclosed by the demands of his vocation.

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