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Geoff Guth's avatar

Now this is the stuff I really love! I can’t wait to get my hands on the book when it comes out.

If you want to meet people who really know, really grok (in Heinlein’s term) that following one’s desires is the path to perdition, may I suggest a visit to a 12-step meeting, Alcoholics Anonymous or one of its numerous offspring. There, you will meet people whose lives were absolutely destroyed by the desire for some substance (be it drugs or alcohol) or some other thing or activity (overeating, sex, gambling, codependency, what-have-you).

What a strange thing our brains can be! Desiring things we know will be unhealthy, even so simple a thing as not wanting to get out of bed in the morning! And yet we also know that the disciplines we put upon ourselves, those things we don’t want to do, like getting to the gym and exercising, are the very things that will make us happy! If intelligent design is a thing, whoever designed humanity had a perverse sense of humor.

Beyond that, have you noticed how our culture, and capitalism specifically, is rooted completely in this notion that true happiness is to be found in the satisfaction of desires? The whole point of marketing is to create desires where none previously existed and then to satisfy them. Social media is deliberately engineered to make you desire to watch that next video, to keep scrolling, even at the expense of your mental health. Heck, Doritos are engineered to make you desire to keep eating until you’ve gone through the entire bag, at the expense of an obesity epidemic. Once you recognize the pattern, you see it everywhere: an entire economy built on the lie that true happiness is right around the corner for the low, low price of $19.95.

There is something truly evil at the very core of our economic system.

I like the point about discipline as well. Or perhaps guardrails is another way to put it. One of my happiest times in my life was one of the most regimented, while I was in the Army. Was I frustrated by the limitations placed on me? You bet I was! But it turns out that those restrictions also did me and my mental health a lot of good.

It seems to me that a healthy society will eschew this constant drive for more, more, more and will build these guardrails up through many institutions, not just religious ones. Moreover, those limits must start with those at the very top. The masses won’t accept restrictions like these if they see the elites flouting them. This is the main reason Trump is such a disaster: the man never saw a desire that he could say no to and it shows. He’s the avatar of the sickness, not its cure. But of course the same applies to celebrities in their private jets and billionaires buying Hawaiian islands, no matter their political persuasion. We are ruled by people who can’t or won’t say no.

Great post, great stuff.

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Bob Hodges's avatar

As to ritual. raised a Methodist and lately a Presbyterian, but I am always transported by the words of commendation from the burial rite in the Book of Common Prayer: Acknowledge, we humbly beseech thee, a sheep of thine own fold, a lamb of thine own flock, a sinner of thine own redeeming.

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